Ask A Divorce Lawyer: How long must I wait until I can ask for a child support reduction?

Question: 

I’ve been divorced for 5 years. How long do you have to wait before asking for a child support reduction or is there even a time line?
 

 

 

Answer:
The time line depends on the facts in your case. In general, child support amounts are based on each parent’s income and number of overnights with each child, although states have variable formulas that may factor health care costs, childcare costs, schooling costs and/or the marital standard of living into the equation. If any of these variables have changed in the past five years, you may have a basis to request a support modification. If nothing has changed, you do not and will have to wait. Here are some suggestions:
Motion to Reduce Child Support:
If you cannot pay the amount, consider filing a motion to reduce it. The standards and procedural requirements vary by state, but, in general, parents who genuinely cannot afford to pay (e.g., have lost a job) will receive a reduced amount or a long-term payment plan. Contact an attorney in your area for information about the rules applicable to you.
Three Year Support Review:
The Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996 requires states receiving federal assistance to review child support orders every three years. In Michigan, where I practice, support payers and payees have a “one time pass” every three years to ask the Friend of the Court to review their current child support order. All they need to do is send a letter to the Friend of the Court to request it. Contact the court or child support administrator for your case to find out how your jurisdiction conducts PRWORA reviews and whether they can be used in lieu of or in addition to and as support for your trial. Be cautious, however, because incremental differences may not be enough to modify the current order (in Michigan, we need at least 15% deviation), and you could end up paying more support if your ex-spouse’s income has deceased more than yours. That does not sound to be the case for you; if anything, your ex’s income has increased because her new husband (presumably) pays some of the debt she had been paying.
 
Pay the Right Person: Most states require payors to pay support through the state, along with a processing fee. Some parents pay their children’s custodial parent directly to avoid paying the fee. That is a mistake. Unless and until your order states that you can pay your ex directly, you must pay child support through the state. In most states, the money you pay directly to the other parent will be treated as a “gift,” not child support. Since the appropriate entity (the state) did not receive the money, you would still owe child support. You could even end up paying the full amount twice. If you would rather pay the parent directly, contact your attorney to learn what the local requirements are for opting out of the state payment system. Most states do allow you to opt out, but generally you cannot have arrears and both parents must agree and/or the court must determine a revised child support order is appropriate. In Michigan, for example, the payor and the payee must agree, the payor must have no arrears, and there must be no threats of domestic violence or signs of “strong-arm” bargaining between the parties before the court will consider an opt-out. When you are allowed to pay the other parent directly, if ever, be sure to make the payments by check so that you have a record of when you wrote the check and whether it cleared your checking account.
 
Settlement Discussion: Explain your financial predicament to your ex, sincerely and in depth. Ask for a settlement at an amount you can afford to pay, and explain that any other higher amount will force you into bankruptcy (if true). Support obligations are non-dischargeable in bankruptcy, and your ex may be left with a bankrupt payor who is not paying anything at all if you do not settle at a reasonable amount. Be sure to reduce any settlement to a written order, with the court’s approval and abiding all court rules and statutes for entering settlement agreements. Keep in mind that I am a Michigan attorney and cannot give you detailed advice about the laws in Florida. You should not rely on this answer as establishing an attorney-client relationship, and you should contact an attorney in your area for additional information or legal representation. Cordell & Cordell, P.C. does have offices in Florida.

 

 

Jennifer M. Paine is an Associate Attorney in the Detroit, Michigan office of Cordell & Cordell P.C. She is licensed to practice in Michigan, and has been admitted pro hac vice in Illinois, Ohio, and the United States Court of Federal Claims. Ms. Paine received her BA in English and Mathematics from Albion College and graduated Summa Cum Laude. She received her Juris Doctorate from MSU College of Law and graduated Summa Cum Laude.

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One comment on “Ask A Divorce Lawyer: How long must I wait until I can ask for a child support reduction?

    I had to move to NC from Michigan a couple years ago to find employment. My child support and health insurance payments are all up to date and are garnished from my wages. I just found out that my 16 year old daughter, still living in Michigan, has dropped out of high school and is living on and off with her boyfriend. She may be pregnant and I’d like to know my rights as the non-custodial father. I’ve heard horror storys about Grandparents having to pay child support for their daughters child. Isn’t the custodial parent responsible at all?

    Thank you

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