Can I Use Cancelled Checks As Proof Of Child Support Payment?

child supportQuestion:

My divorce decree stated that I was supposed to pay child support through the state, but my ex-spouse and I decided it would be easier to just pay her directly.

I paid the full amount and have cancelled checks with “child support” written on every memo. Now when I ask her to sign giving me a credit for what I have paid, she refuses.

If I have to go to court, will the cancelled checks hold up, or are they going to be considered a gift?

Answer:

While I am not licensed to practice law in Missouri and am unable to give you legal advice, I can give you some general observations on this issue based on the jurisdiction where I practice.

Virginia Divorce Attorney Charles Hatley
Virginia Divorce Attorney Charles Hatley

Where I do practice in Virginia, you can show that payments to the mother were for support of the children and not meant to be a gift. The best way to do this is to put what the money is for in the memo line, just like you did.

That being said, it is always best to follow the court’s order. So, if the court orders you to pay through the state, you should likely just pay through the state if possible.

Child support is very jurisdiction-specific and requires a specialized knowledge of local law. For these reasons I would suggest you contact an attorney who specializes in family law matters in your jurisdiction.

Remember, I am unable to provide you with anything more than tips on these matters, so please contact an attorney in your jurisdiction to obtain specific advice as to the laws of Missouri and how they impact your case.

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