It is very common for guys to experience and array of complicated and even conflicting emotions when they’re considering divorce.
On one hand, there is the obligation you feel to fight to save your marriage. Certainly, divorce wasn’t something you expected when you agreed to marry this person, and you obviously want to do what is best for you children while also considering your own happiness.
On the other hand, you’ve probably been having problems in your marriage for some time and surely there comes a point when the relationship is irretrievably broken.
The decision regarding whether to divorce or not is dramatically compounded when you’re a parent. These considerations affect your children deeply. Staying in a toxic marriage is not usually the best option for the family. We need to put the emotional and psychological needs of the children first and seeking out the help of a divorce coach, therapist or other professional can be a real asset in making this vitally important decision.