How do I go about stopping spousal support?
While I am not licensed to practice law in your state, I can give some general guidance on this issue.
You would have to bring a motion before the court to terminate your spousal support obligation, if you cannot come to an agreement with your ex-spouse regarding the termination.
Typically, there must be a change in circumstances (for example, the cohabitation of the receiving party, a change in financial circumstances on the paying or receiving party, etc.) that warrants this modification or termination.
Also, if your ex-wife is remarried, this is a basis for automatic termination of spousal support in most states.
Remember, I am unable to provide you with anything more than divorce tips for men, so please consult a domestic litigation attorney in your area to obtain specific advice as to the laws in your state and how they impact your potential case.