I am going through a divorce and recently went through mediation. She drew up a document stating I can’t have any other women around our children (specifically my girlfriend) unless I get married.
This basically makes dating impossible for me. Is she able to do this?
I am not licensed to practice in your state and cannot provide you legal advice. However, I can give general tips regarding your situation based on the jurisdiction where I practice.
Based on the information you have provided, it sounds as though the agreement reached at mediation between you and your wife contains what is commonly referred to as a morality clause or cohabitation clause.
In my home jurisdiction of Oklahoma and all across the country, these clauses have become increasingly popular. Typically, the clause prevents either party from having a member of the opposite sex, other than a family member or spouse, stay overnight while that parent has custody of the child.
Many times, clients want these clauses added to their decree if they are single and know or have a belief that the other party is in a relationship with another person. However, in most cases, these clauses are added to custodial decrees by agreement and only in rare cases will a judge actually order them to be included without the consent of both parties.