How Do I Prove My Wife’s Drinking Is Endangering Our Kids?

alcohol abuseQuestion:

My wife is an alcoholic and regularly drives with our 9- and 10-year-old kids in the car after drinking.

What proof do I need to prove that her alcohol abuse is putting them in danger so I can get custody? Can the kids testify against her?


I am not licensed to practice in your state. Therefore, I cannot inform you as to the specific laws of your state and can only provide you with general information concerning child custody.

Utah divorce lawyer
Utah divorce attorney Dena L. Morgan

Generally 9- and 10-year-olds are considered too young to testify in court in a divorce case. Instead, you should consider a child custody evaluation.

A child custody evaluation is a third party, usually a doctor/therapist who is at minimum a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). The third party conducts interviews with both parents and the children and then renders an opinion concerning the custody of the children.

The court can then consider that opinion when deciding child custody if you and your wife are still unable to agree.

Other things that may help you are: criminal records of your wife being charged with alcohol-related crimes or other evidence of the alcoholism (pictures/videos). You may be able to discover additional helpful information during the evidence gathering phase of your case.

Remember, I am unable to provide you with anything more than general child custody tips, so please consult a domestic litigation attorney in your area to obtain specific advice as to the laws in your state and how they impact your circumstances.

To arrange an initial consultation to discuss divorce rights for men with a Cordell & Cordell attorney, including Utah divorce lawyer Dena L. Morgan, contact Cordell & Cordell.

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Shawn Garrison is an Online Editor for Lexicon, focusing on subjects related to the legal services of customers, Cordell & Cordell and Cordell & Cordell UK. He has written countless pieces dealing with the unique child custody and divorce issues that men and fathers face. Through his work on,, and, Mr. Garrison has become an authority on the complexities of the legal experience and was a content creator for the YouTube series “Dad’s Divorce Live” and additional videos on both the Dad’s Divorce and Cordell & Cordell YouTube channels. Mr. Garrison has managed the sites of these customers, and fostered the creation of several of their features, including the Cordell & Cordell attorney and office pages, the Dad’s Divorce Newsletter, and the Cordell & Cordell newsletter.

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