What To Know Before Starting The Divorce Process

divorce processQuestion:

I am about to begin the divorce process and would like to gain primary custody of our children. What should I know before I get the ball rolling?

Answer:

While I am not licensed to practice law in your state, I can give some general guidance on this issue.

Miami divorce lawyer Christina Lapadula
Miami divorce lawyer Christina Lapadula

The beginning of the divorce process can be very overwhelming and can place the parties, as well as the children, under a lot of stress. You want to make sure that you and your wife can continue to communicate and co-parent with the children throughout the divorce.

A divorce can take one of two avenues, contested or uncontested.

An uncontested divorce is a fairly simple and quick process in which the parties are in agreement as to the issues in the matter.  An agreement is usually reached between the parties very early on in the process and filed with the court.

However, as you can probably assume, a contested divorce is one in which the parties are not in agreement about most of the issues. This divorce can sometimes proceed for an uncertain amount of time until it is mediated or brought before a judge at trial.

Some of the major issues involved in a divorce action are child support, custody and alimony.

Child support and custody are separate issues although they are inevitably intertwined. Generally the court will order either or both parents to pay child support to the other parent. The amount of time each parent spends with the child can affect the amount of child support paid.

In any case, before separating, you should first try to speak with the mother of your child to reach some sort of agreement with regard to a visitation/time-sharing schedule and have it approved by the court. If the both of you cannot agree, the court will ultimately decide on a schedule.

Alimony or spousal support is not necessarily required in a divorce. Generally, courts will first make a determination as to whether the spouse is eligible or entitled to alimony. This can vary from state to state.

Once the court determines that your spouse is eligible for alimony, it will most likely look at certain factors to determine an appropriate award of alimony. Some of these factors include: educational background; duration of the marriage; age of the requesting spouse; employment history; efforts to find employment; financial resources of the seeking spouse; mental and physical well-being of the spouse; etc.

In addition, some states have caps on the amount or duration of an award of alimony. Alimony could also be agreed to between the parties, rather than court-ordered.

Before taking any major action, like moving out of the home, I urge you to contact a domestic litigation attorney licensed in your area that can examine the full details of your situation.

Remember I am unable to provide you with anything more than divorce tips.

To arrange an initial consultation to discuss divorce rights for men with a Cordell & Cordell attorney, including Florida divorce lawyer Christina Lapadula, contact Cordell & Cordell.

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Shawn Garrison is an Online Editor for Lexicon, focusing on subjects related to the legal services of customers, Cordell & Cordell and Cordell & Cordell UK. He has written countless pieces dealing with the unique child custody and divorce issues that men and fathers face. Through his work on CordellCordell.com, CordellCordell.co.uk, and DadsDivorce.com, Mr. Garrison has become an authority on the complexities of the legal experience and was a content creator for the YouTube series “Dad’s Divorce Live” and additional videos on both the Dad’s Divorce and Cordell & Cordell YouTube channels. Mr. Garrison has managed the sites of these customers, and fostered the creation of several of their features, including the Cordell & Cordell attorney and office pages, the Dad’s Divorce Newsletter, and the Cordell & Cordell newsletter.

One comment on “What To Know Before Starting The Divorce Process

    I could not agree more that it is absolutely essential to continue to make an effort to parent together throughout the divorce process, as the article suggests. It is no secret that children tend to suffer the most from a divorce, and it’s important to do everything possible to help them through the process. Remembering to help the children at this time will also help to keep things in perspective and make the entire situation go more smoothly.

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